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6 year(s) ago • 6130 views • 44 replies
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Thought it would be an interesting thread for people to share their "Origin Stories" of what was the moment that began their journey in Jiu Jitsu and got them seeking or starting regular training.
I'll use myself as a kick off.
I somehow missed the copies of UFC 1, Pride or Gracie in Action. It was a gift of a copy of UFC's Ultimate Knockouts 3 in 2004 that sparked my interest. But it was a lucky coincidence in 2006 that really set me on the BJJ path.
Shortly after I saw that DVD I moved to a university with no martial arts training available so I opened my own Karate club and mostly forgot about grappling for a while. 2 years later in 2006 I moved to Dublin City University & I got wind of a "Martial Arts" club that didn't mention specifically what kind of martial arts it did. I turned up for a class and it turned out to be taken by Andrew Ryan (who would go on to be the 2nd Irish BJJ Blackbelt & was already a very respected Judo Blackbelt). We warmed up, drilled a basic combat base pass and then rolled. I was matched with a girl who had been training for several weeks previous and "took it easy" by not fighting the guard pass. I then watched perplexed as she grabbed my arm in some funny way and then proceeded to almost tear it out of its socket with an Americana. I never saw it coming and learned a valuable lesson, that nothing I had done in years of previous standup martial arts had prepared me for grappling. I was a complete beginner.
The rest is history.
I'll use myself as a kick off.
I somehow missed the copies of UFC 1, Pride or Gracie in Action. It was a gift of a copy of UFC's Ultimate Knockouts 3 in 2004 that sparked my interest. But it was a lucky coincidence in 2006 that really set me on the BJJ path.
Shortly after I saw that DVD I moved to a university with no martial arts training available so I opened my own Karate club and mostly forgot about grappling for a while. 2 years later in 2006 I moved to Dublin City University & I got wind of a "Martial Arts" club that didn't mention specifically what kind of martial arts it did. I turned up for a class and it turned out to be taken by Andrew Ryan (who would go on to be the 2nd Irish BJJ Blackbelt & was already a very respected Judo Blackbelt). We warmed up, drilled a basic combat base pass and then rolled. I was matched with a girl who had been training for several weeks previous and "took it easy" by not fighting the guard pass. I then watched perplexed as she grabbed my arm in some funny way and then proceeded to almost tear it out of its socket with an Americana. I never saw it coming and learned a valuable lesson, that nothing I had done in years of previous standup martial arts had prepared me for grappling. I was a complete beginner.
The rest is history.

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Black belt 1st degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Ok. Short version: I was bouncing around martial arts forums in around 2002 and people kept talking about this guy called Royce Gracie. I was doing a striking martial art at the time, so wasn't interested in anything that meant I couldn't try those cool flying kicks I'd been working on. It took four years of reading, discussing and watching lots of old UFCs, but eventually signed up at the Roger Gracie Academy in 2006.
(very) long version: http://www.slideyfoot.com[...]round.html
(very) long version: http://www.slideyfoot.com[...]round.html
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Ok. Short version: I was bouncing around martial arts forums in around 2002 and people kept talking about this guy called Royce Gracie. I was doing a striking martial art at the time, so wasn't interested in anything that meant I couldn't try those cool flying kicks I'd been working on. It took four years of reading, discussing and watching lots of old UFCs, but eventually signed up at the Roger Gracie Academy in 2006. (very) long version: http://www.slideyfoot.com[...]round.html
What a place to start. Only the beginning of his run of dominance.
Apparently Roger was living and training in Ireland sometime before that. We almost had him!!!! ;) There's VHS footage out there of him training with my coach Andrew Ryan. He was a purple belt then I believe.
P.S our own stories converge slightly with Donal Carmody I believe. We had him for a brief time in our college club in Dublin along with his brother Paddy. Excellent grapplers and great guys.
Thanks for sharing
Apparently Roger was living and training in Ireland sometime before that. We almost had him!!!! ;) There's VHS footage out there of him training with my coach Andrew Ryan. He was a purple belt then I believe.
P.S our own stories converge slightly with Donal Carmody I believe. We had him for a brief time in our college club in Dublin along with his brother Paddy. Excellent grapplers and great guys.
Thanks for sharing
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
What's really funny is that I wrestled and done judo and karate for years prior to starting my training. My uncle introduced me and my father to the UFC 1 and I've watched a few after that but never had the urge to say. SHIT.. I WANNA DO THAT. I actually looking for open wrestling tournaments and i got an advertisement for Jiujitsu in the area. So I figured huh. It looks just like wrestling with the uniform... I can do that. So I emailed the instructor and showed up for an intro class and got my ass handed to me. After that I was determined to beat someone. Took me a few months to get the understanding down in terms to flipping my wrestling skills upside down. After that I was hooked.
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6 year(s) ago
I started my martial arts journey training Muay Thai back in 2011, I trained for several years content with my striking discipline until about four years ago when I started training with some mma guys who would often integrate some takedowns into their sparring game. That’s when the grappling game really began to intrigue me and I jumped into my first class, it was a painful eye opener. I had spent years honing my striking skills and it was terribly disheartening to think that all that experience could be immediately nullified by simply taking me down to the ground where I was basically an infant! The first time I rolled was against a scrawny little dude half my size, I thought my kickboxing base would at least give me some advantage but I was tapping out 5 times in a five minute roll. I couldn’t believe it, it was like magic, armbars, triangles, kimuras, it was like physical sorcery and I started training bjj full time the very next day! I still train Muay Thai but it was that moment I realized that to be a complete martial artist you must know how to grapple!
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6 year(s) ago
I did strip mall karate as a kid. When it came time for me to go to college I looked at all the martial arts clubs they had on campus because I knew I wanted to do a martial art and I knew I didn't want it to be karate anymore, but I wasn't sure what. I ended up finding the UW Budo Club, a group that was doing Waboku ryu jujitsu at the time. After two semesters of jujitsu I was having serious problems with guard - one senior student was passing mine like it wasn't even there, and another senior student had one I just could not get past. Mind you, I had never heard of the UFC, MMA, or anything by this point. So over summer break I call up this BJJ school near my parents' place, it has jiu-jitsu in the name so I figure it must do some groundwork. Justin is super nice to me on the phone, I end up asking "do you guys do any guard work?" He laughs and just says "yeah, we can help with that." I showed up, ended up doing all the BJJ and MMA classes I could make.
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
P.S our own stories converge slightly with Donal Carmody I believe. We had him for a brief time in our college club in Dublin along with his brother Paddy. Excellent grapplers and great guys. Thanks for sharing
Cool! Donal is such a lovely person (Paddy is a top bloke too), great grappler as well (he should have been a black belt aaaaages ago). Super important to my BJJ, both in the stuff I learned from him in private lessons, plus he co-founded my club with me. He still pops in occasionally, but a busy guy.
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6 year(s) ago
Crappy VHS tape of UFC 2 that I watched in 1995. Once Royce tapped Minoki Ichihara, it was game on. Watching Remco and Royce destroy the strikers, and watching the ninja get his ass beaten to a pulp pretty much sealed it.
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6 year(s) ago
I had been a big martial arts movie fan since a kid, but never took up anything because I was stiff as wurtzite boron nitride (I have never been able to lift up my foot hip-height... still can't) and generally hated sports (thanks, school) being more of an art nerd growing up, so I figured I'm never gonna be able to do any of the kicking stuff and thus martial arts are not for me.
However, when I moved literally across the street from a martial arts academy at 30 years old I decided now I have to finally go & try something out. (I could see the gym sign from my kitchen window.) I was planning to take up boxing (seemed simple enough for a guy with serious athletic & flexibility issues) but the friend who I managed to talk into joining with me had a conflict with the schedule of the boxing beginners' class. So we went to "submission wrestling" instead. I don't think I had much knowledge about BJJ prior. He quit soon, I'm still at the gym 8+ years later.
However, when I moved literally across the street from a martial arts academy at 30 years old I decided now I have to finally go & try something out. (I could see the gym sign from my kitchen window.) I was planning to take up boxing (seemed simple enough for a guy with serious athletic & flexibility issues) but the friend who I managed to talk into joining with me had a conflict with the schedule of the boxing beginners' class. So we went to "submission wrestling" instead. I don't think I had much knowledge about BJJ prior. He quit soon, I'm still at the gym 8+ years later.
Black belt 4th degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Watch a VHS tape in 1994 of UFC 1 when I came back from being stationed overseas. I did not want anyone to do to me what Royce was doing to those guys. Eventually I was invited to a Gracie Jiu Jitsu seminar in 95. Started in 95 while regularly training in TKD after attending a seminar at Kovar's Karate in Carmichael (Sacramento area) while stationed in California. The seminar was with Cesar and Ralph Gracie. That was it. I was hooked.
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
I had been a big martial arts movie fan since a kid, but never took up anything because I was stiff as wurtzite boron nitride (I have never been able to lift up my foot hip-height... still can't) and generally hated sports (thanks, school) being more of an art nerd growing up, so I figured I'm never gonna be able to do any of the kicking stuff and thus martial arts are not for me. However, when I moved literally across the street from a martial arts academy at 30 years old I decided now I have to finally go & try something out. (I could see the gym sign from my kitchen window.) I was planning to take up boxing (seemed simple enough for a guy with serious athletic & flexibility issues) but the friend who I managed to talk into joining with me had a conflict with the schedule of the boxing beginners' class. So we went to 'submission wrestling' instead. I don't think I had much knowledge about BJJ prior. He quit soon, I'm still at the gym 8+ years later.
One of my most technical blue belts came for the cardio kickboxing class, but got her days mixed up and came to my class by accident. She had zero interest in BJJ and ended up only missing 2 classes in the past few years. I'll bet that's pretty common.
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Was somewhat of an insecure pre-teen and teen and took up Aikido at age of 15 or 16 after dabbling in different sports before that (and sucking at every one of those). Was liking martial arts obviously from the 80s ninja movies and Turtles etc since childhood. Was obsessed with Aikido (even wrote like a 60-page paper on that), was pretty good at it, obviously thought I was a badass. I had a friend Indrek Reiland who trained Wing Tsun (under Sifu Priit Mihkelson btw ;) ) we both were martial arts nerds and they held "open fighting" Saturdays where we thought alright, let's see how Aikido vs Wing Tsun looks like. And it looked like two rather incompetent teens scuffling. BUT on the parallel we saw that what Priit and Indrek practiced in their "BJJ" thing that had a quite fast carryover to fighting. So we thought there was something wrong with what was being told in Traditional Martial Arts. Me and Indrek went to Uni together and became dormroom mates and started training together starting the very first dedicated BJJ/grappling group in Estonia (which consisted of 3 permanent and 1-3 rotating members :D ) and soon after dropped Wing Tsun and Aikido all together (which we had started to teach) opened up our own small BJJ & MMA club. A big influence on that was us finding about the concept of Aliveness in combat sports / martial arts pedagogy from Matt Thornton and Indrek taking a trip to UK to Matt's seminar in early 2004. The rest is history ;)
P.S. On a sidenote or remark about general Estonian BJJ history: Priit was the first who actually started learning and practicing BJJ a few years before 2004, me and Indrek just left the "mother" TMA club we all belonged under sooner because we didn't have so much personal attachments to it. Martin Aedma who became Estonias first BJJ BB in 2010 started out as Priit's student and was the first Estonian to totally say "F this TMA bullshit, I just want to do BJJ." (that was around 2002 I think. He trained with Priit until 2006 (?) after which he moved to Tartu and became our club's head BJJ instructor until he left to Finland in 2014 (?).
P.S. On a sidenote or remark about general Estonian BJJ history: Priit was the first who actually started learning and practicing BJJ a few years before 2004, me and Indrek just left the "mother" TMA club we all belonged under sooner because we didn't have so much personal attachments to it. Martin Aedma who became Estonias first BJJ BB in 2010 started out as Priit's student and was the first Estonian to totally say "F this TMA bullshit, I just want to do BJJ." (that was around 2002 I think. He trained with Priit until 2006 (?) after which he moved to Tartu and became our club's head BJJ instructor until he left to Finland in 2014 (?).
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6 year(s) ago
Martin Aedma who became Estonias first BJJ BB in 2010 started out as Priit's student and was the first Estonian to totally say 'F this TMA bullshit, I just want to do BJJ.' (that was around 2002 I think. He trained with Priit until 2006 (?) after which he moved to Tartu and became our club's head BJJ instructor until he left to Finland in 2014 (?).
Was Martins background in wrestling also? I remember seeing a video on his guard passing (smash passing if memory serves) about 10 years ago and he was referencing Greco Roman Wrestling I think.
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Noone of us has a background in wrestling :D BJJ came first for all of us. Me and Martin just practiced quite a lot of wrestling and with University wrestlers during Uni. Martin even got a silver medal in Freestyle Nationals. I participated once but got my arse handed to me.
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6 year(s) ago
Noone of us has a background in wrestling :D BJJ came first for all of us. Me and Martin just practiced quite a lot of wrestling and with University wrestlers during Uni. Martin even got a silver medal in Freestyle Nationals. I participated once but got my arse handed to me.
I remember 10 years ago hearing his Guard passing being praised in such high terms that I thought there might be a secret combination of BJJ & wrestling. Turns out it was just talent and solid BJJ technique. Heartbroken now haha.
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6 year(s) ago
https://beltchecker.com/f[...]e5dc799799
Some cool stories in this forum from a couple of weeks ago.
Some cool stories in this forum from a couple of weeks ago.
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
My story is similar to a lot of other people - fairly athletic, nerdy dude, who started BJJ in his mid-twenties. Turned into an obsession, trained 4+ times per week for the first half, and then life got in the way. Slimmed that down between 2-3 times per week for the remainder.
Competed some - always done well, not super great - won some divisions at all levels - knew I was never going to be an ultra-competitor.
I train with a great group of guys and I couldn't ask for a better journey.
Competed some - always done well, not super great - won some divisions at all levels - knew I was never going to be an ultra-competitor.
I train with a great group of guys and I couldn't ask for a better journey.
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
i started in martial arts in 2002, i trained a martial art called "Kung Do Lama", part of the curriculum was some No GI grappling, my professor once took some GIs to training and taught us some chokes with it, i was very impressed and i started my own research to find about this GI and BJJ thing, my first official BJJ training was in the now extinct Carlson Gracie Guatemala school in 2010, i spent there around 1 year and i just got until 3rd stripe on my white belt there, after that i moved to GB Guatemala (Condado Naranjo), i received all my belts there until now.
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Im Takwondo Black Belt 4 degrees.. and give classes in a Gym that had BJJ.
Im brazilian.. but never inerest for BJJ.
When i started it.. never stop to training :)
Bye bye 32 years of Taekwondo practice :)
Im brazilian.. but never inerest for BJJ.
When i started it.. never stop to training :)
Bye bye 32 years of Taekwondo practice :)
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Seen UFC 2 in jr high and kept up since. Parents got me Gracie Basics for Christmas one year then started training at the Lions Den in Tulsa in the late 90s. Was always hovering over Mousels and submissionfighting.com during those days. Never was a Sherdog guy. Anyways training took off in the early 2000s and I’ve always kept up with the online community since then
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6 year(s) ago
I did a couple of different traditional styles as a youth. Mainly American Kickboxing, Hapkido and Kung Fu. Had two Kickboxing matches, a Boxing match, did a Point Karate tournament and a full contact TKD tournament. I was pretty successful and competent. A friend of mine had started Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, and he came over to my house to spar (my parents worked weekends, fight club at my place, yikes).
He was able to stop every bit of strikes, take me down and choke me out/submit me. I fell in love with the art at that moment. I saw the efficiency, the creativity and the power of grappling. Started training in it short after and have not stopped yet.
He was able to stop every bit of strikes, take me down and choke me out/submit me. I fell in love with the art at that moment. I saw the efficiency, the creativity and the power of grappling. Started training in it short after and have not stopped yet.
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
In 2009 Someone in my friend circle at a party was talking about it and convinced another friend to watch a class. I decided to meet them there. Took 3 intro lessons and then got locked into a 12month contract. Thought about quitting many times too.
The friend who convinced me to go to the first class moved away to college like three weeks later and hasn’t trained since.
The friend who convinced me to go to the first class moved away to college like three weeks later and hasn’t trained since.
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6 year(s) ago
Wasted 6 years of my life doing Aikido, thanks Steven Seagal. Above the Law was awesome though, I wonder if it has aged well? Anyway, an Aikido friend rented UFC 1 after it came out on vhs. We saw what Royce did and pretty soon ended up paying $250 on ebay for Gracie Basics tapes. After a few training sessions we started tapping out fellow Aikidokas with ease with extremely sloppy armbars from mount. Garage grappling after Aikido classes started to become a thing. I even remember popping my buddy's ankle through some variation of a heel hook. All that soon came to an end when sensei caught on about what we were doing after class so we had to find another spot to grapple.
Soon after I found a purple belt called Koji teaching in Montreal through the Underground forum. I attended my first class in December 1999. Class was 6 of us including 2 mma fighters, one of whom went on to have quite a career. I got my first tap after a year of training with those monsters, but I remember it like yesterday.
Soon after I found a purple belt called Koji teaching in Montreal through the Underground forum. I attended my first class in December 1999. Class was 6 of us including 2 mma fighters, one of whom went on to have quite a career. I got my first tap after a year of training with those monsters, but I remember it like yesterday.
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6 year(s) ago
I've been studying various forms of martial arts since I was a kid. Filipino Martial Arts, Kung Fu, Karate, Boxing, and Kickboxing! Just like many from my generation, I got into Jiu-Jitsu because of MMA! UFC 1 in 93! The only thing I had available to me at the time was my high school wrestling team (I was horrible) and I JKD (Inosanto Curriculum - JKD, FMA, Silat, Muay Thai, Shooto/Shoot Wrestling)! The head instructor of the JKD club went to the Gracie academy/garage a few times a month and brought down what ever he would learn and teach it to us! I did that for 2 years until I moved to AZ, then I found a BJJ club and I've never looked back!
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Wasted 6 years of my life doing Aikido, thanks Steven Seagal. Above the Law was awesome though, I wonder if it has aged well? Anyway, an Aikido friend rented UFC 1 after it came out on vhs. We saw what Royce did and pretty soon ended up paying $250 on ebay for Gracie Basics tapes. After a few training sessions we started tapping out fellow Aikidokas with ease with extremely sloppy armbars from mount. Garage grappling after Aikido classes started to become a thing. I even remember popping my buddy's ankle through some variation of a heel hook. All that soon came to an end when sensei caught on about what we were doing after class so we had to find ano Class was 6 of us including 2 mma fighters, one of whom went on to have quite a career.
Oooh I'm wondering now. Go on. Drop that name!!
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6 year(s) ago
Oooh I'm wondering now. Go on. Drop that name!!
Ivan Menjivar, old school guys would know. He was 16 at the time and just wrecking us.
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Seen UFC 2 in jr high and kept up since. Parents got me Gracie Basics for Christmas one year then started training at the Lions Den in Tulsa in the late 90s. Was always hovering over Mousels and submissionfighting.com during those days. Never was a Sherdog guy. Anyways training took off in the early 2000s and I’ve always kept up with the online community since then
Nice, old school! As you mentioned Gracie Basics, that reminds me of something I asked many years ago now, when I first reviewed them ( http://www.slideyfoot.com[...]asics.html ). I’d love to hear any anecdotes you might have about watching and learning from the original Gracie Jiu Jitsu Basics tapes back in the day, and especially how you view the tapes now, with the benefit of hindsight. :D
Black belt 5th degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Nice, old school! As you mentioned Gracie Basics, that reminds me of something I asked many years ago now, when I first reviewed them ( http://www.slideyfoot.com[...]asics.html ). I’d love to hear any anecdotes you might have about watching and learning from the original Gracie Jiu Jitsu Basics tapes back in the day, and especially how you view the tapes now, with the benefit of hindsight. :D
Rorion was always an excellent teacher.
He also had excellent Clinch timing.
He also had excellent Clinch timing.
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
6 year(s) ago
Rorion was always an excellent teacher. He also had excellent Clinch timing.
I'd love to get a lesson from him. I've had numerous BJJers of your vintage tell me just how excellent a teacher Rorion was (and presumably still is). I have met Rorion, but only very briefly: he poked his head around the door when I was interviewing Rener for Jiu Jitsu Style Magazine a few years ago. :D


