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Coming back from bad motorcycle accident
4 year(s) ago • 2743 views • 8 replies
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
4 year(s) ago
What's up everyone? On August 28th of this past year I was involved in a bad motorcycle accident, simply because someone failed to stop at a stop sign a block away from my house. My life changed in an instant. I shattered my left wrist (there's still bone fragments the surgeons couldn't remove), my left ankle ( at least 14 fractures), my pelvis, broke my back, sacrum, and tailbone. I had also severed my iliac artery, causing me to bleed out internal. They said I died 3 times, once at the ER, once on the helicopter ride, and once at the trauma hospital 3 hours away. I was told I would no longer be able to do bjj.
I have worked my ass off and can finally say I started coaching again. I'm already doing things the doctors said I would never do again. I'm still trying to get more range of motion from my wrist as it doesn't bent back but maybe 10 degrees. My pelvis and back have been pretty difficult to build back, but getting there. I'm hoping to compete again in the future as well. I've also had 6 knee surgeries, 2 wrist surgeries and more prior to this so I had an idea of what to expect.
Who has been through something similar and made their way back? I've been training for so long, I can't imagine my life without bjj.
I have worked my ass off and can finally say I started coaching again. I'm already doing things the doctors said I would never do again. I'm still trying to get more range of motion from my wrist as it doesn't bent back but maybe 10 degrees. My pelvis and back have been pretty difficult to build back, but getting there. I'm hoping to compete again in the future as well. I've also had 6 knee surgeries, 2 wrist surgeries and more prior to this so I had an idea of what to expect.
Who has been through something similar and made their way back? I've been training for so long, I can't imagine my life without bjj.

Black beltVerified
4 year(s) ago
The most important thing when you return most likely will be choosing your training partners wisely.
Don't roll with strangers or lower heavier belts that don't know how to roll properly yet especially since your a Black Belt. A lot of lower belts can't help themselves but to try to go extra hard against black belts.
And if say you have a really bad wrist and you no longer wear anything to protect it you should wear something probably just to remind people that oh there's an injury in that spot. Just to give them a constant reminder.
Don't roll with strangers or lower heavier belts that don't know how to roll properly yet especially since your a Black Belt. A lot of lower belts can't help themselves but to try to go extra hard against black belts.
And if say you have a really bad wrist and you no longer wear anything to protect it you should wear something probably just to remind people that oh there's an injury in that spot. Just to give them a constant reminder.
Edited 4 year(s) ago
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified
4 year(s) ago
Yeah, it's all about doing the things that allow you to leave the mat if not better then at least as good as you stepped on it :) Anything that has significant risk of doing the opposite (makes you worse off) should be kept away.
Black beltVerified
4 year(s) ago
I cannot say I have something similar! You have been through hell and back, god bless you and welcome back!
In 2014 I had a nasty injury on my right hand. My thumb tip was held on by skin only, bone was intact and nerves and tendons were cut. My pointer and middle finger were worse, fracture bones, both extensor and flexor tendons were severed. The pointer was split from the tip thru the first joint and about 1/4 the way to the second joint. The only finger that was not damaged was my pinky. Had major surgeries to fix and repair as much as possible.
I decided that Physical therapy had progressed to a point where I could do more myself. During this time I had been sitting on the corner of the mat watching practices as much as I could. When I came back I still had restrictions of using my hand, because of pins still in two fingers. Working with a select few at the gym we came up with a plan to allow me to work. sticking my right hand into my belt and modifying moves based on restrictions I had. using this method i was able to continue to progress where I know have no restrictions at all.
I think as others said above, the goal here is for you to relearn your body and limitations, within your injuries. Take it slow listen to how you feel, and do not overdo it.
Good luck !
In 2014 I had a nasty injury on my right hand. My thumb tip was held on by skin only, bone was intact and nerves and tendons were cut. My pointer and middle finger were worse, fracture bones, both extensor and flexor tendons were severed. The pointer was split from the tip thru the first joint and about 1/4 the way to the second joint. The only finger that was not damaged was my pinky. Had major surgeries to fix and repair as much as possible.
I decided that Physical therapy had progressed to a point where I could do more myself. During this time I had been sitting on the corner of the mat watching practices as much as I could. When I came back I still had restrictions of using my hand, because of pins still in two fingers. Working with a select few at the gym we came up with a plan to allow me to work. sticking my right hand into my belt and modifying moves based on restrictions I had. using this method i was able to continue to progress where I know have no restrictions at all.
I think as others said above, the goal here is for you to relearn your body and limitations, within your injuries. Take it slow listen to how you feel, and do not overdo it.
Good luck !
Blue beltVerifiedSvizzera
4 year(s) ago
So much respect for people like you!
I Hope you keep improving and reach your new goal. Greeting from Switzerland
I Hope you keep improving and reach your new goal. Greeting from Switzerland
Black beltVerified
1 year(s) ago
I plan on wearing an orange Gi tonight to class, so I expect to have a simular list of imjuries.
Massive congrats on clawing your way back, I hope you never have to go though anything like that again.
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Massive congrats on clawing your way back, I hope you never have to go though anything like that again.
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Black beltVerified
1 year(s) ago
wow, thats horrible that you had to deal with that but God bless ya for getting back to where you are. The one thing I found with my knee surgery (and is clearly a drop in the bucket compared to your long list of issues and surgeries sir) is that by working with only higher belts I knee even though they'd put me in situations I didn't want to be in (they knew the knee was weak, so they "lovingly" attacked the knee over and over with knee bars and making me shrimp and work without there being real "danger" to it. By a 3-4 months later my knee wasn't something I thought about but what I was working on etc.
I hope you can continue to teach and get even better from these injuries, and you are right, after so many years doing martial arts it is who we are, not something we do, so I know you'll figure out a way around this.
I hope you can continue to teach and get even better from these injuries, and you are right, after so many years doing martial arts it is who we are, not something we do, so I know you'll figure out a way around this.
Black beltVerified
1 year(s) ago
Much respect to you. I know this is an old post but well done on getting yourself together after everything that happened and returning to the mats. I had a bike accident on the 10-11-2024 (luckily no broken bones) and damaged both my knees, right hip and right side of stomach with some nasty deep cuts and glass inside one of the wounds. I am missing jiujitsu terribly and apparently I can only start again in January. Cannot wait to get back on the mats. Without bjj, it feels like my mental health is not in order. But I know soon I will return!
Go slow and make sure you pick your partners carefully, and as counter-intuitive as this is, go slow. Rushing back will only knock you back further.


