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Getting promoted too fast?

4 year(s) ago • 4363 views • 19 replies

Skyler Burns
Skyler Burns
Purple beltVerified25 forum posts920/400
4 year(s) ago
So for background of my training history: I started Janurary 2020, only trained 2-3 times a week for a month before COVID shut down. Mostly trained kickboxing during the shut down. When I started back in June 2020 I started going to Jiu jitsu more. probably 4 classes a week. I stayed pretty consistent until August 2021 when I tore my Meniscus and then I got my Blue belt November 1st 2021. I quit doing kickboxing around the end of 2021 and went full Jiu Jitsu. Since December of 2021 I started doing about 8-10 Jiu jitsu Classes a week, sometimes more but thats the average, usually 5 days a week but sometimes 6. I have maintained this consistency most of the year and I have been to about 300 classes this year between Gi and No Gi.

So now for the main question. I have gotten two stripes in 10 months I believe the coach is intending to give me a third soon but I feel like its moving too quick? I usually have the upper hand on all the blue belts in my gym, and I can handle most blue belts at other gyms/ people who visit us. I am very competitive with all our purple belts and am starting to give the brown belts some trouble.

I know I train more than the average person training, and I try to do 4-5 comps a year.

I have listened to a ton of podcast and videos about the progression of Jiu jitsu and how much time its supposed to take at each belt. But I don't want to rush it and I want to make sure I am learning/ growing at a pace that is correct for my belt. How can I tell if I am being promoted too quickly? Is it possible that because of the volume and my dedication to Jiu Jitsu that it just can happen faster for some people? I feel like it is hard to tell sometimes because I know the higher belts will sometimes go easier on lower belts so it could be a false sense of progression when I do well against the higher belts.

Looking for some insight from you guys since many of you have been through the belts and around a lot longer than I have. I appreciate all your responses and insights!
Skyler Burns
Skyler BurnsOP
Purple beltVerified25 forum posts920/400
4 year(s) ago
Do you trust your instructor?
I love my instructors I know they like me, I guess I just am comparing myself to all the general wisdom/ videos I have watched about promotions.
Bobby McMasters
Bobby McMasters
Black belt 1st degreeVerified1272 forum posts12800/1000
4 year(s) ago
I love my instructors I know they like me, I guess I just am comparing myself to all the general wisdom/ videos I have watched about promotions.
I wouldn't be able to say without having trained with you, but I'd say don't trip too hard about it. A good instructor won't want to sign off on a whack belt promotion. If you trust your promoting instructors then you're most likely on the right track.
Christian Graugart
Christian Graugart
Black belt 4th degreeVerified4323 forum posts39320/1000
4 year(s) ago
You have two options:

1) Trust your coach's experience/judgment and don't worry about it
2) Find another coach with a different standard
Ben Smallwood
Ben Smallwood
Black belt 4th degreeVerified72 forum posts5190/1000
4 year(s) ago
You have two options: 1) Trust your coach's experience/judgment and don't worry about it 2) Find another coach with a different standard
A third option: throw your newly striped belt in your professor’s face while yelling something about creontes or mcdojos.

Should you choose option #3, please come back to post how it goes.
Benoit Zenthner
Benoit Zenthner
Black belt 4th degreeVerified518 forum posts12245/1000
4 year(s) ago
Receive what's gived to you, and if you feel that you don't deserved it yet....work harder to feel right about it. But i can actualy tell you that you got a pretty rare quality in bjj call "humility"
Vovis
Vovis
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified976 forum posts9215/1000
4 year(s) ago
I love my instructors I know they like me, I guess I just am comparing myself to all the general wisdom/ videos I have watched about promotions.
Here's my take on this, if you don't feel your ready, that's a good thing in my opinion. Means to me you truly care about your jiu-jitsu journey.

With that being said I know a lot of people that felt uncomfortable moving up to the new belt, including myself! That's natural. It takes a while for you to feel comfortable with the belt around your waist. But for it to feel comfortable you have to test yourself constantly.

My belief is that your instructors reputation is tied to you being awarded that belt, trust in his/hers evaluation of your skill level.
John A. Byrne
John A. Byrne
Black beltVerified1013 forum posts6370/1000
4 year(s) ago
A third option: throw your newly striped belt in your professor’s face while yelling something about creontes or mcdojos. Should you choose option #3, please come back to post how it goes.
uh, and videos. For, uh, research purposes....
James Jones
James Jones
Black beltVerified1309 forum posts6475/1000
4 year(s) ago
Go compete more. You will know where you stand as far as the mats go.

As far as your overall well rounded knowledge and ability to teach others which is more about what the belts really stand for trust your coach.
Coachpotato
Coachpotato
Black belt 1st degreeVerified776 forum posts1920/1000
4 year(s) ago
Ahhh stripes and promotions... In my experience, once you stop caring about them, you'll stop receiving them.
Fernando
Fernando
Black belt 3rd degreePending13 forum posts1725/1000
4 year(s) ago
I guess we always think we don't deserve our promotions. But, our professors always know a lot more than us.
Trust him, keep training hard and be happy!
Benoit Zenthner
Benoit Zenthner
Black belt 4th degreeVerified518 forum posts12245/1000
4 year(s) ago
If you don't feel right about being graduated by your coach, after hard training for month, imagine the pressure on the shoulders of People who award themself with zero skills....

Philip Dunlap
Philip Dunlap
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified1043 forum posts59560/1000
4 year(s) ago
Trust your coaches opinion. Also look around the room do you feel the other students are appropriately ranked?
Jay Pages
Jay Pages
Black belt 4th degreeVerified491 forum posts23470/1000
4 year(s) ago
I'd say, go and compete! See how you fair amongst other blue belts that don't train with you!
Skyler Burns
Skyler BurnsOP
Purple beltVerified25 forum posts920/400
4 year(s) ago
Thanks everyone for the replies and opinions! It's so amazing to have so many people with years of training to weigh in on these things. I appreciate it!
Andrew Dodd
Andrew Dodd
Brown beltVerified117 forum posts1935/700
4 year(s) ago
It depends on your gym's view of stripes. Some consider a stripe a promotion, while others consider it an encouragement to continue to push toward the next promotion. Some may give you a load of stripes in a year and then no belt change for three years after that. You could always just train until the stripes fall off and never put them back on.
Roy Francis
Roy Francis
Black beltVerified42 forum posts4380/1000
4 year(s) ago
Meh stripes dont matter, i would only award stripes to white belts after that it doesn’t matter until youre a black belt
Hsuan Wei (steven) Hsu
Hsuan Wei (steven) Hsu
Black beltVerifiedTaiwan26 forum posts2250/1000
4 year(s) ago
What I learn over the years, is that you never feel like you are worthy of any promotion. But it is ok to feel that way. Realizing your own short coming is a good thing.
Anders Xu
Anders Xu
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified12 forum posts4115/1000
4 year(s) ago
I’m pretty sure that your professor know what they are doing. If you trust in their technique then trust in their promotions to. Many times other see qualities we have that we ourself take a time to realize :). So just be happy and content and save this post for the future as you can reread it and tell your own students once they come up with the same doubts.
Jon
Jon
Purple beltVerified89 forum posts1345/400
4 year(s) ago
I think what you're feeling is normal. Personally, I just received my purple belt and I'm a little nervous about visiting other gyms to represent my gym and my belt. I was always pretty comfortable as a blue belt and there was no pressure to be especially good, which allowed me to experiment. In the end though, this has nothing to do with my coach, but everything to do with my own personal hang-ups.

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