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Just found out I am old

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Philip Dunlap
Philip Dunlap
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2 year(s) ago
A promoter released poster for a match I am doing on the 22nd and the first couple responses were that I am old.. I don't know about some of the other older grapplers but I actually have fun with it when people focus on me being older than dirt
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Philip Dunlap
Philip DunlapOP
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified1043 forum posts59560/1000
2 year(s) ago
I know I say you are never to old but I guess this is what most people see.. The upside is you sneak up on them plus the sponsorship option are great..

Geritol, Ben Gay, ARRP, Grecian formula for men ( I know I don't have hair but what the hell), Adult Depends, Rogaine (hair again) and most important Viagra
John A. Byrne
John A. Byrne
Black beltVerified1013 forum posts6370/1000
2 year(s) ago
A promoter re;eased poster for a match I am doing on the 22nd and the first couple responses were that I am old.. I don't know about some of the other older grapplers but I actually have fun with it when people focus on me being older than dirt
Quite inspirational to me, I'm no spring chicken and it is awesome to see someone else doing this a long time. Best way to take ummph outta anything is to have fun with it.
Philip Dunlap
Philip DunlapOP
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified1043 forum posts59560/1000
2 year(s) ago
My real opponent if father time and I know he is undefeated but I want him to say damn that MFer gave me hell
Sebastian Ellinghaus
Sebastian Ellinghaus
Black belt 1st degreeVerified599 forum posts34785/1000
2 year(s) ago
I am going to be 50 next year and this is an inspiration!
It is a kind of dream to be able to follow my way on the mats for 20 more years.
It is quite cool to be a timeless rock but unfortunately that will never happen.
-But hey, dreams are the stuff our world is made of!
Ronzilla
Ronzilla
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified49 forum posts6040/1000
2 year(s) ago
I'm 54 and my body has been broken for a long time but I still love training. Love seeing the older guys compete, more power to you.
Anthony Restuccia
Anthony Restuccia
Black beltVerified650 forum posts12595/1000
2 year(s) ago
I'm going to be completely honest. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I started training when I was 32. I have a hard time slowing down and/or not training with the "kids" that have the endless energy and strength. My body has been broken at every joint, and many of my muscles have torn. I'm now having trouble training more then a couple days a week. I hurt ALL the time. None of this should be foreign to anyone reading this, but lately I have been asking myself if it's worth it anymore. I hate to say it because I always said I wouldn't say it, but I'm starting to lean towards, "No it isn't." While I'm not nearly as passionate about jiu jitsu as many of you, it has been a huge part of my life. It's a little sad to me that I feel like I'm nearing the end... :(

Sorry for the sappy post. Ummm...
That poster f#@king rocks!!! :)
John A. Byrne
John A. Byrne
Black beltVerified1013 forum posts6370/1000
2 year(s) ago
I'm going to be completely honest. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I started training when I was 32. I have a hard time slowing down and/or not training with the 'kids' that have the endless energy and strength. My body has been broken at every joint, and many of my muscles have torn. I'm now having trouble training more then a couple days a week. I hurt ALL the time. None of this should be foreign to anyone reading this, but lately I have been asking myself if it's worth it anymore. I hate to say it because I always said I wouldn't say it, but I'm starting to lean towards, 'No it isn't.' While I'm not nearly as passionate about jiu jitsu as many of you, it has been a huge part of my life. It's a little sad to me that I feel like I'm nearing the end... :( Sorry for the sappy post. Ummm... That poster f#@king rocks!!! :)
I've fought and am doing so know to slow myself down. I'm the same age as you Anthony, and it certainly is hard to force myself to slow down as I've been doing martial arts since I was 30, but instead of bonding it, I look at forcing myself to take 1 day off a week from rolling and just use that time to assist folks, etc. For me this works and keeps me on the mats and working.
Sebastian Ellinghaus
Sebastian Ellinghaus
Black belt 1st degreeVerified599 forum posts34785/1000
2 year(s) ago
Well, my way of awareness is, to allow myself to skip lessons because of „minor“ reasons like not slept enough or simply feeling powerless. And meanwhile I habe learned to be picky with my rolling partners.
Until today this is enough.
Another point is maybe I started grappling 40 years ago and learned to slow down early and to accept that everything takes its time before BJJ hit me in my late 30s. 💁🏻‍♂️
Marc Baker
Marc Baker
Brown beltVerified2 forum posts1490/700
2 year(s) ago
I'm going to be completely honest. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I started training when I was 32. I have a hard time slowing down and/or not training with the 'kids' that have the endless energy and strength. My body has been broken at every joint, and many of my muscles have torn. I'm now having trouble training more then a couple days a week. I hurt ALL the time. None of this should be foreign to anyone reading this, but lately I have been asking myself if it's worth it anymore. I hate to say it because I always said I wouldn't say it, but I'm starting to lean towards, 'No it isn't.' While I'm not nearly as passionate about jiu jitsu as many of you, it has been a huge part of my life. It's a little sad to me that I feel like I'm nearing the end... :( Sorry for the sappy post. Ummm... That poster f#@king rocks!!! :)
I also started jiujitsu pretty late in life. (I think 30?)

I thought I was going to hang it up after my second knee surgery. Like, "Do I want to train now, or be able to walk when I'm 60 years old?"

Obviously having come back I chose the former, though I question what my long-term timeline looks like. I've found that not rolling to compete helps a little. Not always training really hard with people who are also going at it hard. Now, my focus is on improvement but more importantly - Injury management. I tap early and often these days. I've got nothing to prove to the young bucks on the mat. I just wanna keep coming back week after week, and am fairly sure I won't be able to if I'm accelerating the wear and tear more than necessary.
R. David Gonzalez
R. David Gonzalez
Black belt 4th degreeVerified4764 forum posts34325/1000
2 year(s) ago
I'm going to be completely honest. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I started training when I was 32. I have a hard time slowing down and/or not training with the 'kids' that have the endless energy and strength. My body has been broken at every joint, and many of my muscles have torn. I'm now having trouble training more then a couple days a week. I hurt ALL the time. None of this should be foreign to anyone reading this, but lately I have been asking myself if it's worth it anymore. I hate to say it because I always said I wouldn't say it, but I'm starting to lean towards, 'No it isn't.' While I'm not nearly as passionate about jiu jitsu as many of you, it has been a huge part of my life. It's a little sad to me that I feel like I'm nearing the end... :( Sorry for the sappy post. Ummm... That poster f#@king rocks!!! :)
You and me both Sir
I can definitely relate
Philip Dunlap
Philip DunlapOP
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified1043 forum posts59560/1000
2 year(s) ago
I have been competing in some form of professional combat sports since 15 and I have found a huge key for me the last 10 years into let go of the Athlete mindset that the result is key.. I have learned to listen to my body and work around things and got through the process without thinking about the result
John A. Byrne
John A. Byrne
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2 year(s) ago
A promoter released poster for a match I am doing on the 22nd and the first couple responses were that I am old.. I don't know about some of the other older grapplers but I actually have fun with it when people focus on me being older than dirt
Reminds me of the movie poster for the movie Sisu - which if you haven't watched is BAD ASS!
Edward Simonson
Edward Simonson
Black belt 1st degreeVerified1 forum posts1820/1000
2 year(s) ago
Turning 54 this month and I’m still out there competing. I received my black belt at 50 so the competition is definitely a different level. But who cares, I’m having fun and meeting tons of older guys still willing to put it on the line.
Vovis
Vovis
Black belt 2nd degreeVerified976 forum posts9215/1000
2 year(s) ago
A promoter released poster for a match I am doing on the 22nd and the first couple responses were that I am old.. I don't know about some of the other older grapplers but I actually have fun with it when people focus on me being older than dirt
I have fun with it as well. I egg the younger guy on!
Rich Sab
Rich Sab
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified10 forum posts9110/1000
2 year(s) ago
I'm going to be completely honest. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I started training when I was 32. I have a hard time slowing down and/or not training with the 'kids' that have the endless energy and strength. My body has been broken at every joint, and many of my muscles have torn. I'm now having trouble training more then a couple days a week. I hurt ALL the time. None of this should be foreign to anyone reading this, but lately I have been asking myself if it's worth it anymore. I hate to say it because I always said I wouldn't say it, but I'm starting to lean towards, 'No it isn't.' While I'm not nearly as passionate about jiu jitsu as many of you, it has been a huge part of my life. It's a little sad to me that I feel like I'm nearing the end... :( Sorry for the sappy post. Ummm... That poster f#@king rocks!!! :)
Stop it dude
You’re not going anywhere
I’ll see you soon brother 😃
Jesse Neill
Jesse Neill
Purple beltVerified11 forum posts2105/400
2 year(s) ago
I’m 46. I have only been doing Jiu Jitsu for just over 4 years. I started to do it with my son. I wrestled in high school and enjoyed an active army life for 8 years. Looking back I wish I had been better to my body. I wasn’t so it is what it is. I love Jiu Jitsu. Not just for the physical and mental challenges but most of all the brotherhood and comradery that I missed so much from wrestling and the army. I wear braces and tape on most of my parts. You’re as old as you accept or believe. I promised my son I’d get on the mats as long as I am physically able. Believe me I tell myself I’m not that old most days. I feel 95 years old most days. Be safe.
Philip Dunlap
Philip DunlapOP
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified1043 forum posts59560/1000
2 year(s) ago
Reminds me of the movie poster for the movie Sisu - which if you haven't watched is BAD ASS!
Looked it up you are right now i have to watch the movie
Jon
Jon
Purple beltVerified89 forum posts1345/400
2 year(s) ago
I'm going to be completely honest. I'll be 50 on my next birthday. I started training when I was 32. I have a hard time slowing down and/or not training with the 'kids' that have the endless energy and strength. My body has been broken at every joint, and many of my muscles have torn. I'm now having trouble training more then a couple days a week. I hurt ALL the time. None of this should be foreign to anyone reading this, but lately I have been asking myself if it's worth it anymore. I hate to say it because I always said I wouldn't say it, but I'm starting to lean towards, 'No it isn't.' While I'm not nearly as passionate about jiu jitsu as many of you, it has been a huge part of my life. It's a little sad to me that I feel like I'm nearing the end... :( Sorry for the sappy post. Ummm... That poster f#@king rocks!!! :)
ripped some tendons in my knee last year and haven't been back since (rehab and just long healing at my age, 49). I've gone through the thoughts of is this worth it or not, especially because I couldn't even walk for a while there. I love BJJ, but I can't help weigh that love against being disabled. In any case, when I get back to the gym I'll try to be less dynamic and adopt a more slow pressure style (which is the base of my game anyway). Getting old sucks.
Philip Dunlap
Philip DunlapOP
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified1043 forum posts59560/1000
2 year(s) ago
One thing I have noticed is that I spend far more time on active recovery and working around injuries then I ever imagined possible.

It's not what hurts but what doesn't hurt if I wasn't obsessive about training and nutrition etc. I would probably not still be doing this combined with the fact that I have trained in combat sports my whole life it is part of my being. It's the only addiction I have had that has made my life better
Mark Gilston
Mark Gilston
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified200 forum posts6335/1000
2 year(s) ago
I'm 70 and still actively teaching and rolling. I stopped competing in my mid-forties though. One of the issues with being an older competitor is that the age and weight classes often get combined and you end up competing with much younger and/ or heavier guys, or else you pay your money and get a medal for not actually fighting anyone. Judo has kata for older competitors which is a nice way to avoid those problems if you're so inclined.
Philip Dunlap
Philip DunlapOP
Black belt 3rd degreeVerified1043 forum posts59560/1000
2 year(s) ago
I'm 70 and still actively teaching and rolling. I stopped competing in my mid-forties though. One of the issues with being an older competitor is that the age and weight classes often get combined and you end up competing with much younger and/ or heavier guys, or else you pay your money and get a medal for not actually fighting anyone. Judo has kata for older competitors which is a nice way to avoid those problems if you're so inclined.
That's awesome I hope I get 10 more years much less 10 on the mats.. I actually end up competing mostly with younger guys although believe me I understand why people stop competing
Coachpotato
Coachpotato
Black belt 1st degreeVerified776 forum posts1920/1000
2 year(s) ago
Turning 36 or 37, or something next year. Some days feeling old, some days feeling young. Focusing a lot on not overdoing my training, while still chasing improvement physically and technically. I know that's still young compared to you ancient ones. But you guys are my inspiration. Still rolling, despite nagging injuries and having to focus on surviving against young tough athletic types. I believe that is like the true measure of fortitude.

Some day I want to achieve "old man strength" and good level of jiu-jitsu. Hopefully before I turn ancient.

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