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How did you start Jiu Jitsu? (Crazy Story)
2 year(s) ago • 1503 views • 45 replies
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
When I first joined the Marine Corps in 2012 I went infantry (Rough Crowd). I had just "hit the fleet" when my seniors had recently returned from Afghanistan. My roommate decided that "You're gonna drink for our fallen b¡t*h". Out of respect I complied (Although I was only 18yo at the time). He proceeded to alcohol Haze me having me drink two solo cups full of Popov vodka, I was silly enough to allow it. Next thing I knew I was too far gone and needed to sober up. I remember fading in and out of a drunken state (Why I will never allow myself to drink that much ever again) so I went to the center of the Barracks to get a powerade to sober up and go straight to bed. Before I could scan my key card to get into my room I remember hearing the howling of hammered seniors all getting ready to bombard me because "a boot thought he rated to be out of his room" (Boot is the derogatory term for a new Marine who's done nothing but graduate boot camp).
Next thing I knew I had two "senior" Lance Corporals (LCpl)/E-3 and a Corporal (Cpl)/E-4 screaming at me just to mess with the little boot. I didn't even know these dudes just that they were from a sister platoon and I wasn't trying to mess with them at all but they sure wanted to mess with me being the new guy. Being confused as to who exactly were I was calling them by their wrong ranks accidentally....and The Cpl got real upset (Kinda sad seeing how now I'm an E-6 with over a decade in)
Out of nowhere the Cpl screams at me"Call me Lance Corporal one more time b¡tc*".....immediately following his Lance drunkenly screams "Yeah MFer call him a Lance"......being drunk myself I look at the LCpl and respond to him "Yes Lance Corp......" CRACK the Cpl punched me right in my face mistaking that I mocked him or something along those lines.
....Mind you I started boxing at the age of 9 from my grandfather.
I stitched the Cpl up with an immediate combo I could tell he wasn't expecting. His two buddies both pounced on me immediately. They all three jumped me so badly that I had a broken left orbital (In three spots), broken maxilla (Two spots), nose, and upper left jaw....both eyes were swollen shut making me look like a human racoon. I had to undergo surgery and was on some heavy pain meds for weeks with a nose cast. "Welcome to the MARINE CORPS"
My platoon Sergeant Mark C. was a purple belt at the time. When he found out after getting released from the hospital he (lived out on town) came to my room to find me and said "Hey buddy, I don't know what happened, and I know there's not a good enough reason why it happened....but the very day you are considered to be back to full duty (healthy), your first two months of Jiu Jitsu are already paid for....you need to actually know how to defend yourself"
A month and a half later I was cleared by the doc and I began my BJJ Journey at Neo Warrior MMA in 29 Palms, training under Mark as my primary coach for years.....Haven't stopped ever since!
What's your story??
Next thing I knew I had two "senior" Lance Corporals (LCpl)/E-3 and a Corporal (Cpl)/E-4 screaming at me just to mess with the little boot. I didn't even know these dudes just that they were from a sister platoon and I wasn't trying to mess with them at all but they sure wanted to mess with me being the new guy. Being confused as to who exactly were I was calling them by their wrong ranks accidentally....and The Cpl got real upset (Kinda sad seeing how now I'm an E-6 with over a decade in)
Out of nowhere the Cpl screams at me"Call me Lance Corporal one more time b¡tc*".....immediately following his Lance drunkenly screams "Yeah MFer call him a Lance"......being drunk myself I look at the LCpl and respond to him "Yes Lance Corp......" CRACK the Cpl punched me right in my face mistaking that I mocked him or something along those lines.
....Mind you I started boxing at the age of 9 from my grandfather.
I stitched the Cpl up with an immediate combo I could tell he wasn't expecting. His two buddies both pounced on me immediately. They all three jumped me so badly that I had a broken left orbital (In three spots), broken maxilla (Two spots), nose, and upper left jaw....both eyes were swollen shut making me look like a human racoon. I had to undergo surgery and was on some heavy pain meds for weeks with a nose cast. "Welcome to the MARINE CORPS"
My platoon Sergeant Mark C. was a purple belt at the time. When he found out after getting released from the hospital he (lived out on town) came to my room to find me and said "Hey buddy, I don't know what happened, and I know there's not a good enough reason why it happened....but the very day you are considered to be back to full duty (healthy), your first two months of Jiu Jitsu are already paid for....you need to actually know how to defend yourself"
A month and a half later I was cleared by the doc and I began my BJJ Journey at Neo Warrior MMA in 29 Palms, training under Mark as my primary coach for years.....Haven't stopped ever since!
What's your story??
Edited 2 year(s) ago
Purple beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I started because I was a reserve volunteer police officer at the time and aside from carrying a gun and mace, I didn't receive any formal training. So I started training as I wanted to be able to handle problems without resorting to the tools I had at my disposal.
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I started because I was a reserve volunteer police officer at the time and aside from carrying a gun and mace, I didn't receive any formal training. So I started training as I wanted to be able to handle problems without resorting to the tools I had at my disposal.
Very important to not just "resort to tools" I applaud you for that sir, thank you for sharing!
Brown beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I saw a homicidal maniac at a local fitness gym doing what I can only describe as humping a punch bag on the floor many many years ago.
I approached, with caution. He told me he was doing ‘Gracie Jiujitsu’ - I did some research and the rest is history.
Joined a few forums back in the day and eventually built up the courage to attend some classes at Gracie Barra Birmingham in the UK.
I approached, with caution. He told me he was doing ‘Gracie Jiujitsu’ - I did some research and the rest is history.
Joined a few forums back in the day and eventually built up the courage to attend some classes at Gracie Barra Birmingham in the UK.
Blue beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
For me, I was going through a hard time after my girlfriend had a miscarriage. I was moping around and numb and just needed to throw myself into something I could watch grow. It just so happened I came across a podcast that talked about the benefits of BJJ and told myself I would just do a trial and see what happens and here we are getting ready to come up on 2 years and no plans on slowing down.
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
2 year(s) ago
In 2010 I had a car breakdown on my way to a Judo training lesson. A guy picked me up and asked some questions about my Gi I had with me. Later on he told me some stuff about „BJJ“ and invited me for a training. I did so and BJJ came in my live. 12 years later and exactly 30 years after earning my first black belt I earned the second one in BJJ.💁🏻♂️
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
For me, I was going through a hard time after my girlfriend had a miscarriage. I was moping around and numb and just needed to throw myself into something I could watch grow. It just so happened I came across a podcast that talked about the benefits of BJJ and told myself I would just do a trial and see what happens and here we are getting ready to come up on 2 years and no plans on slowing down.
That's awesome!
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
In 2010 I had a car breakdown on my way to a Judo training lesson. A guy picked me up and asked some questions about my Gi I had with me. Later on he told me some stuff about „BJJ“ and invited me for a training. I did so and BJJ came in my live. 12 years later and exactly 30 years after earning my first black belt I earned the second one in BJJ.💁🏻♂️
Dang! Double Black!!!
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
2 year(s) ago
I started because of internet message boards, essentially. I'd been doing kung fu type stuff for a while, then got into posting on message boards around 2001. People on places like SFUK, Cyberkwoon, Tung Fu and Bullshido kept mentioning this Royce Gracie guy I'd never heard of in something called the UFC. Bought a bunch of DVDs, looked intriguing.
It took a few years, but I eventually got curious enough to try grappling in person (with some guys at a meet up of the Tung Fu forum). With encouragement from people on Bullshido, I finally got down to a BJJ class.
About two decades later, I'm a black belt, teaching BJJ for a living. So thanks, internet. ;)
It took a few years, but I eventually got curious enough to try grappling in person (with some guys at a meet up of the Tung Fu forum). With encouragement from people on Bullshido, I finally got down to a BJJ class.
About two decades later, I'm a black belt, teaching BJJ for a living. So thanks, internet. ;)
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I started because of internet message boards, essentially. I'd been doing kung fu type stuff for a while, then got into posting on message boards around 2001. People on places like SFUK, Cyberkwoon, Tung Fu and Bullshido kept mentioning this Royce Gracie guy I'd never heard of in something called the UFC. Bought a bunch of DVDs, looked intriguing. It took a few years, but I eventually got curious enough to try grappling in person (with some guys at a meet up of the Tung Fu forum). With encouragement from people on Bullshido, I finally got down to a BJJ class. About two decades later, I'm a black belt, teaching BJJ for a living. So thanks, internet. ;)
"So thanks internet" hahaha that's awesome!
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I started because I wanted to train UFC...
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
2 year(s) ago
It was 1999 and I figured with about six months of training jiu jitsu. I could beat jiu jitsu. I had the opposite reaction of what most people did when they saw Royce do his thing. I wanted to learn just enough jujitsu to beat Royce Gracie. Even though I never wrestled, I always liked wrestlers and fought like a wrestler. I wanted to learn just enough "BJJ tricks" to beat jiu jitsu.
I fell in love with sport soon after getting my purple. Up to that point, I was collecting Intel- now I am hooked.
I'm still waiting to learn the magic tricks. I thought I'd learn the special handshake at black, but maybe I have to wait for coral belt.
I fell in love with sport soon after getting my purple. Up to that point, I was collecting Intel- now I am hooked.
I'm still waiting to learn the magic tricks. I thought I'd learn the special handshake at black, but maybe I have to wait for coral belt.
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
It was 1999 and I figured with about six months of training jiu jitsu. I could beat jiu jitsu. I had the opposite reaction of what most people did when they saw Royce do his thing. I wanted to learn just enough jujitsu to beat Royce Gracie. Even though I never wrestled, I always liked wrestlers and fought like a wrestler. I wanted to learn just enough 'BJJ tricks' to beat jiu jitsu. I fell in love with sport soon after getting my purple. Up to that point, I was collecting Intel- now I am hooked. I'm still waiting to learn the magic tricks. I thought I'd learn the special handshake at black, but maybe I have to wait for coral belt.
"Beat Jiu Jitsu"! and "Still waiting to learn the magic tricks" That's funny!
Black belt 1st degreeVerified
2 year(s) ago
I was stationed in the military in Alaska in the 90s. I already had a couple of blackbelts in other arts. I was invited to do a "cross martial arts training session" with someone who was a Ralph Gracie Purple belt, that was stationed in Alaska, he just got back from seeing Ralph. He wanted to cross train and spar with other people. he was a friend of mine. I went to train and he told me i could use whatever i want on him in sparing...... i got my ass kicked for about 30 minutes non-stop. After that i threw my other belts away "i was young, and immature" it made sense. then i never looked back. i continued with BJJ until today.
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I was stationed in the military in Alaska in the 90s. I already had a couple of blackbelts in other arts. I was invited to do a 'cross martial arts training session' with someone who was a Ralph Gracie Purple belt, that was stationed in Alaska, he just got back from seeing Ralph. He wanted to cross train and spar with other people. he was a friend of mine. I went to train and he told me i could use whatever i want on him in sparing...... i got my ass kicked for about 30 minutes non-stop. After that i threw my other belts away 'i was young, and immature' it made sense. then i never looked back. i continued with BJJ until today.
Very nice!
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I was becoming quite a fat and usless human being while lazing around I was watching podcasts about Atheism. One such video was an interview of Sam Harris by Joe Rogan. Joe said that he had started TKD and was a black belt, he was invited by a friend to a Kick Boxing gym and thought "I should be able to hold my own, yeah lets do it." or thoughts to that effect. He got his ass handed to him, so he thought "I need to train Kick Boxing". After getting decent at Kick Boxing another friend much younger than him, 17 I think invited him to a BJJ session. "I am brillaint at TKD, good at Kick boxing I should be fine." His ass again got handed to him but this time by a "kid". He stated that he wished he had start BJJ first. So I did that.
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I was becoming quite a fat and usless human being while lazing around I was watching podcasts about Atheism. One such video was an interview of Sam Harris by Joe Rogan. Joe said that he had started TKD and was a black belt, he was invited by a friend to a Kick Boxing gym and thought 'I should be able to hold my own, yeah lets do it.' or thoughts to that effect. He got his ass handed to him, so he thought 'I need to train Kick Boxing'. After getting decent at Kick Boxing another friend much younger than him, 17 I think invited him to a BJJ session. 'I am brillaint at TKD, good at Kick boxing I should be fine.' His ass again got handed to him but this time by a 'kid'. He stated that he wished he had start BJJ first. So I did that.
Great reasons!
Brown beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
My friend called me and said, dude, I got this book, you need to check it out. It was Jiu Jitsu Unleashed by Eddie Bravo. We read it and started working on the stuff in it. The rest is history.
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
My friend called me and said, dude, I got this book, you need to check it out. It was Jiu Jitsu Unleashed by Eddie Bravo. We read it and started working on the stuff in it. The rest is history.
Dude I've got that book! Plus his three 10th Planet books!
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
My friend called me and said, dude, I got this book, you need to check it out. It was Jiu Jitsu Unleashed by Eddie Bravo. We read it and started working on the stuff in it. The rest is history.
Dude I've got that book! Plus his three 10th Planet books!
Purple beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I was “broken” all over from about 10 years of CrossFit and wanted something that was lower impact and a challenge (both physically and from a learning perspective)
Couple that with my son (now 11) had been training Muay Thai for 4 years and had just started BJJ at a local gym. It didn’t take many classes of me watching from the sideline, seeing how fantastic his coaches were and the familiar (like CrossFit) family feel this gym had to know I had found my new people and signed up.
That, and I figured I’d better get a couple years of training under my belt before my son came for the car keys. 😂
Couple that with my son (now 11) had been training Muay Thai for 4 years and had just started BJJ at a local gym. It didn’t take many classes of me watching from the sideline, seeing how fantastic his coaches were and the familiar (like CrossFit) family feel this gym had to know I had found my new people and signed up.
That, and I figured I’d better get a couple years of training under my belt before my son came for the car keys. 😂
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I was “broken” all over from about 10 years of CrossFit and wanted something that was lower impact and a challenge (both physically and from a learning perspective) Couple that with my son (now 11) had been training Muay Thai for 4 years and had just started BJJ at a local gym. It didn’t take many classes of me watching from the sideline, seeing how fantastic his coaches were and the familiar (like CrossFit) family feel this gym had to know I had found my new people and signed up. That, and I figured I’d better get a couple years of training under my belt before my son came for the car keys. 😂
🔪🔪🔪🔪🔪
Brown beltVerified
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I was into pro wrestling and saw the first UFC when I was 8 in 1993. My interest was immediate. I rented all the tapes at blockbuster. Tried my first class at 16 or 17?
Blue beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I watched UFC 1 and 2 and thought it was great. Wrestled through high school and coached for 20 years. Then covid hit and saw people getting crazy. Figured it was time to start.
Blue beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
My daughter was being harassed at school and ultimately hurt badly at age 6. We enrolled her in BJJ. About a year into it, she looked at me one day and asked, “mom, I’m learning this to protect myself… what are you doing to protect yourself and me?”
Signing up, evidently.
That day was six years ago. My daughter, Marley, is still training. She doesn’t remember not-training. Her little sister, Presley, just got her grey belt a month before her 8th birthday. And I’m eyeing that third stripe on my blue belt.
Signing up, evidently.
That day was six years ago. My daughter, Marley, is still training. She doesn’t remember not-training. Her little sister, Presley, just got her grey belt a month before her 8th birthday. And I’m eyeing that third stripe on my blue belt.

Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
My daughter was being harassed at school and ultimately hurt badly at age 6. We enrolled her in BJJ. About a year into it, she looked at me one day and asked, “mom, I’m learning this to protect myself… what are you doing to protect yourself and me?” Signing up, evidently. That day was six years ago. My daughter, Marley, is still training. She doesn’t remember not-training. Her little sister, Presley, just got her grey belt a month before her 8th birthday. And I’m eyeing that third stripe on my blue belt.
I am terriblt sorry to hear about the harassment....but the fact that it all led to the journey shows the beautiful side of life to it all!
Blue beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I am terriblt sorry to hear about the harassment....but the fact that it all led to the journey shows the beautiful side of life to it all!
I appreciate all the love.
I’m lucky enough to say that my daughter changed my life, and not because she’s my kid, but bc she put me in this incredible path.
I’m lucky enough to say that my daughter changed my life, and not because she’s my kid, but bc she put me in this incredible path.
Black belt 4th degreeVerified
2 year(s) ago
I've always been complete shite at ball sports except for football (soccer). Martial arts has always been in my family. I started because I watched the very first UFC on PPV Live and I wanted to do that! So, i got into Jiu-Jitsu, Shooto, and Wrestling in High School.
Black beltVerified
2 year(s) ago
I've always been complete shite at ball sports except for football (soccer). Martial arts has always been in my family. I started because I watched the very first UFC on PPV Live and I wanted to do that! So, i got into Jiu-Jitsu, Shooto, and Wrestling in High School.
I wasn't so good at sports either...I loved them but this has been my only "developed talent" really


